Embodied Pleasure

Embodied pleasure is one of the juiciest, most fulfilling parts of our existence–but more than that, it can be the ultimate guide to living a life fueled by intimacy and purpose.

Rewiring yOur Patterns for Peak Pleasure

What if you could trade… low libido, mismatched desire, painful sex, avoidance of intimacy, and body shame for… self-body love, body confidence, attunement with your partner’s pleasure, satisfying sex, and confidence in your boundaries? With small, slow changes and commitment to yourself and your pleasure, you can. When your body is acknowledged and nourished, and you take the most doable steps towards the intimacy you seek, you can move into new, fulfilling patterns of behavior that empower you to harness, enjoy, and experience pleasure like never before.

Take your first gentle steps to the intimacy you’re longing for. Schedule a complimentary 30-minute call now to discover the boundless pleasure awaiting you today.

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Let me give you the heartfelt reassurance that the pleasure you are seeking is completely possible.

Picture…

fulfilling and satisfying sex, intimate connections with your own body, and a deeper understanding of pleasure as the lifeblood of existence.

Sometimes, difficult experiences, learned behaviors, embodied patterns, chronic nervous system responses, and mental obstacles can get in our way of enjoying the juiciest, most enticing pleasure.

Embodied Pleasure Coaching & Intimate Bodywork is a way to approach these seemingly insurmountable challenges to pleasure, sensation, and intimacy in a new and effective way. Our minds are incredibly powerful tools, but can often create obstacles that we rationally cannot overcome. The good news is: the body always has a way through.


As a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, I…

empower individuals and couples to repattern their body’s behaviors,

  • work directly with their body responses, and

  • teach important nervous system skills

that show you not just how to seek pleasure, but how to find it in the most fulfilling, embodied ways. 

My approach differs from traditional sex therapy in that, rather than simply talking about your body’s responses in sex, we work directly with your embodied patterns in present time. 


It’s time to stop talking about the intimacy that you’ve always wanted and start actually experiencing it as an integrated part of your relationship to yourself, others, and your life.

To learn more about my sexological bodywork services, click here.

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Why Embodied Pleasure Coaching & Bodywork?

Somatic Sex Education is a therapeutic coaching modality that includes breathwork, body awareness practices, one-way educational touch, arousal network and anatomy instruction, and body and eroticism de-shaming exercises

Think of pleasure coaching and bodywork as a roadmap within yourself–the direct route from an expert to show you how to reconnect to pleasure and use it as your guiding force through exquisite attunement to your body’s sensation, your body’s language, and your embodied intuition.

Just like learning to play a new instrument, theory and conversation about how to play will only take you so far.

In Somatic Sex Education, we create exercises that give you the opportunity to actually play the instrument of your body to gain the skills you want to curate in sex. 

  • If you have trouble expressing your desires in sex, we co-create practices that feel comfortable, safe, and expansive where you can actually ask for what you want. 

  • If you are having sex that is unsatisfying, habitual, or boring, we co-create opportunities for your body to feel curiosity for pleasure again. 

  • If sex feels painful and you don’t know why, we work directly with the tissues, and educate you to your beautiful erotic anatomy so that you are empowered to create the sex life that you’ve always wanted. 

  • If you are healing from a surgery or readjusting to your new body & sexuality post-procedure, we create a loving space for you to be witnessed in everything that you are, in the body that you’re in now.

To find out more about Sexological Bodywork services, click here.

Embodied pleasure coaching and intimate bodywork are all about moving past the unique roadblocks standing in the way of you seeking and finding authentic, soul-fulfilling pleasure by devoting yourself to love and attention to your body as your greatest partner in the fullest pleasure and more burgeoning fulfillment.

Every session is a dual effort from your coach (that’s me) and you to safely and confidently approach those seemingly insurmountable challenges to:

intimacy,

pleasure, and

sensation

In life changing ways.

As a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, I help individuals and couples repattern their body’s behaviors, work directly with their body responses, and teach crucial nervous system skills that empower you to seek–and find–pleasure.

I’ll work with you to break through mental and somatic obstacles as we discuss, experience, and seek to understand what your body is truly saying.


To find out more about Sexological Bodywork, visit our FAQ.


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What to Expect with Pleasure Coaching & Bodywork

Sexological bodywork is, in its essence, a direct conversation between practitioner and the body of the client.

My unique approach to Somatic Sex Education includes guidance, coaching, and practices in areas like:

  • Low libido

  • Mismatched desire

  • Numbness in the body or genitals

  • Avoidance of intimacy, sensation, sex

  • Painful sex

  • Unfulfilled fantasies

  • Lack of desire

  • Body shame

  • Inability to communicate with partner

  • Prolapse/incontinence/structural difficulties

  • Not knowing what your desires sexually are

  • Desire discrepancy

  • Not knowing how to talk about sex or refer to your genitals directly

  • Desire to enjoy sex more

  • Body shame

  • Fear of sex

  • Habitual and boring sex

  • Routine intimacy that leaves you feeling unfulfilled and not honored

  • Painful sex

  • Inability to orgasm

  • Lack of erectile choice/ erectile dysfunction

  • Unfulfilled desires

You can talk about sex all you want, but it is not until you see what the body has to say that you will actually know what is between you and your perfect, most burgeoning, and beautiful eroticism.

To learn more about sexological bodywork, visit our FAQ.

Picture fulfilling and satisfying sex, intimate connections with your own body, and a deeper understanding of pleasure as the lifeblood of existence.


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I'm Nicole,

Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Doula, Postpartum Healer, Trauma-Informed Professional

As a CSB, doula, and postpartum healer with focused training in trauma-informed and client-led bodywork, it is my driving mission to help you find comfort in your body, attunement with your desires, and the confidence within yourself to progress on your journey of self-growth. I wholly believe that your body–your pleasure, your love, and your acceptance–is your inherent compass to leading a full, vital, and fulfilling life. It is my passion and my privilege to walk with you every step of the way toward a better understanding and a clearer alignment of that compass.