Reading list

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the psychology of sex

Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power; A Method for Getting What You Want by Getting Off on What You Don't by Carolyn Elliott

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The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment by jack morin

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If you need a boost in your anatomy skills

Women's Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure by Sheri Winston

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The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women by Tristan Taormino

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Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men, Women and Couples

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Nutrition for a good sex life

Healthy Happy Sexy: Ayurveda Wisdom for Modern Women

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If you’d like approachable information on trauma

Mirrors in the Earth: Reflections on Self-Healing from the Living World

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Good Sex: Getting Off without Checking Out by Jessica Graham

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Call of the Wild: How We Heal Trauma, Awaken Our Own Power, and Use It for Good by Kimberly Ann Johnson

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The Politics of Trauma: Somatics, Healing, and Social Justice by staci haines

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The Body Has a Mind of Its Own: How Body Maps Help You Do by kate reading

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IF your primary challenge is body image

The Body Is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love by Sonya renee taylor

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Renegade Beauty: Reveal and Revive Your Natural Radiance - Beauty Secrets, Solutions, and Preparation by nadine artemis

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Eating in the Light of the Moon: How Women Can Transform Their Relationship with Food Through Myths, Metaphors, and Storytelling by arika rapson

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Body Respect: What Conventional Health Books Get Wrong, Leave Out, and Just Plain Fail to Understand About Weight

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The Beauty Myth: How Images of Beauty Are Used Against Women by naomi wolf

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If gynecology, health & pain have been your biggest barriers to intimacy

Pelvic Pain Clinic by caffyn jesse

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Balance Your Hormones, Balance Your Life: Achieving Optimal Health and Wellness through Ayurveda, Chinese Medicine, and Western Science

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For Her Own Good: Two Centuries of the Experts Advice to Women by Barbara Ehrenreich

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Breasts: A Natural and Unnatural History by florence williams

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Taking Charge of Your Fertility, 20th Anniversary Edition: The Definitive Guide to Natural Birth Control, Pregnancy Achievement, and Reproductive Health

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Witches, Midwives, and Nurses: A History of Women Healers

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If you need erotic inspiration

My Secret Garden: Women's Sexual Fantasies by nancy friday

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Behind the curtain: books about sexological bodywork

Healers on the Edge: Somatic Sex Education

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Pelvic Pain Clinic by caffyn jesse

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Gather RElationship skills

Fair Play: A Game-Changing Solution for When You Have Too Much to Do (and More Life to Live)

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The politics of pleasure & sex

Rethinking Sex: A Provocation

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Re-Making Love: The Feminization of Sex

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Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good

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Blood and menstruation for a good sex life

Her Blood Is Gold: Awakening to the Wisdom of Menstruation

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Witch by lisa lister

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Healing in pregnancy and postpartum

The Fourth Trimester: A Postpartum Guide to Healing Your Body, Balancing Your Emotions, and Restoring Your Vitality by kimberly ann johnson

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The Mama Natural Week-by-Week Guide to Pregnancy and Childbirth by Genevieve Howland

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Books about menopause

Second Spring: The positive guide to menopause by kate codrington

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Wise Power: Discover the Liberating Power of Menopause to Awaken Authority, Purpose and Belonging by alexandra pope

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Books for men

Iron John: a book about men by robert bly

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Fire in the Belly: On Being a Man

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books for collective & systemic change

Emergent Strategy: Shaping Change, Changing Worlds

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Embodied Leadership: The Somatic Approach to Developing Your Leadership

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