What Season of Sexual Healing Are You In?

An insightful quiz to help you determine YOUR PERFECT ALCHEMY of sexual healing.

IF YOU ARE HERE I imagine you’re one of those magical beings that sees that SEX isn’t JUST SEX.

AND You are RIGHT ON THE PRECIPICE of a HUGE shift towards demanding pleasure
in EVERY PART of your life—

your relationship,
your career,
your sex,
your friendships,
and your relationship to your entire body.

You understand that your erotic journey isn’t just about exploring sexuality; it is about discovering a more authentic, embodied way of living, centered in pleasure and self-awareness.

And you’re probably one of those semi-WOO WOO people (just on the fringe of the hippie-community) that is looking for something more nuanced and experiential (dare I say embodied) than just talk therapy and self-help books,

BUT you identify as a practical person, and you cringe just a little bit when you hear the phrase “sacred sex ritual.”

YOU MAY HAVE NOTICED that so much of the sexual healing advice out there falls into just a couple of categories:

  1. either it’s rooted in mindset work (i.e. talk therapy, sex coaching),

  2. or it’s focused on practical skills like techniques and tools (how to orgasm 50 times in 2 minutes etc.).

(Or if you have stumbled into the magenta-tinged corner of the internet, you have found tantric sex philosophy and have decided that’s not for you.)

Here at Body Compass, we do things differently.

I’m Nicole and I have worked as a sexological bodyworker for years, providing support for people in the middle of their sexual healing path who are looking for:

  • Hands-on practical support to intimacy.

  • Have tried “conventional methods” to heal their sex— talk therapy, pelvic floor PT, books, podcasts, and the like, but nothing has gotten them to LOVING their body and feeling pleasure again.

  • A nuanced approach that takes into account just how many things can affect your intimacy. I’m talking—the PATRIARCHY, physical limitations like pelvic dysfunction, a difficult birth, body image issues, practical skills like sex education, your menstrual cycle.

OUR WHOLE BODY is a LIVING AND LOVING organism, and everything (and I’m talking SERIOUSLY HOLISTIC AND INTERDISCIPLINARY HERE) affects the season of sexing that we are in, AND exactly how to move from...

a cold and dusty winter to…❄️🪔a warm soup and hot cocoa by the fire chilly day☕

a frantic and overwhelming spring to… 🌷 a frolicking through the field of flowers springtime 🌈

a muddy walk through the fallen leaves fall to… 🍂 an inspiring and transformative fall 🍁

a blazing hot and humid summer to…🌊a refreshing dip in the water and rejuvenating sun bathing summer🌞

I’m Nicole,

and I’m so glad you’ve found your way here, you pleasure-seeker you…

As a sexological bodyworker, I’ve had the privilege of guiding many people through their sexual healing journeys, and I’m honored to be a part of yours.

If you’re reading this, you might be at a point where you’re seeking deeper understanding, more profound healing, or perhaps just a clearer path forward. Whether you’re just beginning this journey or have been on it for some time, feeling a bit tired or frustrated, I want you to know that you’re exactly where you need to be.

The Body Compass ecosystem is made for those magical people who…

  • Know they want something MORE in sex, but know what it is

  • Have found themselves stuck for years of old erotic issues

  • Find themselves right in the middle of an annoying confluence of intimacy blocks— low libido, painful sex, sexual shame, body image issues, gynecological/pelvic issues

  • Want a mix of both practical, hands-on direction for solving their intimacy AND are ready for a deep dive into their erotic world

At the heart of my work is a belief in the power of honoring every season of our sexual selves. So much of the world focuses on the ‘summer’—the peak experiences, the passion, the intensity. But true healing requires us to embrace all seasons: the spring of new beginnings, the autumn of reflection, and the winter of deep rest. Each season holds its own beauty and wisdom, and each is vital to your journey.

The philosophy behind my work is rooted in the understanding that sexual healing is not just about techniques or quick fixes. It’s about weaving together the physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects of who you are. We all carry collective sexual trauma, inherited definitions of touch that may feel disempowering, and body images shaped by ideals that are not rooted in love. Healing is about reclaiming your power, your pleasure, and your connection to yourself and others in a way that feels authentic and true.

My approach is interdisciplinary, drawing from various healing modalities like tantra, sex therapy, and more. It’s not about following one path, but about finding the threads that resonate with you and weaving them into a holistic, nurturing experience. This is not a journey you have to navigate alone. I’m here to walk with you, to help you explore the layers of your being, and to support you in creating a healing process that honors every part of who you are.

In this space, you’re free to explore without judgment, to grow without pressure, and to heal at your own pace. My goal is to create a nurturing environment where you can feel safe to be exactly where you are, knowing that there is no right or wrong way to heal—only the way that feels right for you.

Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your journey. I’m here with you, every step of the way.

With warmth and care,

Nicole